Kyoto, Nara, Hiroshima, Miyajima, Onomichi, Kurashiki

When the Storm Changed My Route (And Taught Me Something About Letting Go)

I wasn't supposed to go to Hiroshima.

It wasn't on my list, not because there was nothing there, but because I wasn't sure I was ready for what was there. A city known first for a bomb, and then for everything it rebuilt after. I'd read enough to assume I already knew the shape of it: the Peace Park, the memorial, a quiet walk, and then what? So, I planned around it, quietly, without really admitting that's what I was doing.

What was on the list, what's always on the list if I'm honest, was Takamatsu and Shodoshima. I'm an island girl. Give me nature, give me water, give me the sea, and I'm home before I've even arrived. When I was building this route, that's genuinely all I asked for: something nature, sea please. Takamatsu and Shodoshima were exactly that answer.

Then Typhoon Bavi had other plans.

Who would have known. The place I least planned for turned out to be the place that touched my heart the most, the place, and the people. I'll tell you more of that in my next blog, I hope you won't get bored of me by then.

Slowly, if you keep reading these stories, you'll notice a pattern. Every place I go, there's almost always a beach, an island, or the sea somewhere in it. I have a preference, and I know exactly where it comes from. I grew up on an island in Malaysia, and I don't think I realised until I was well into adulthood just how much that shaped me.

Quick Look:

Original route: Kyoto, Nara, Takamatsu (July 2, two nights), Shodoshima (July 4, two nights), Kurashiki, then Hokkaido

New route: Kyoto, Nara, Hiroshima, Miyajima, Onomichi, Kurashiki

Why: Typhoon Bavi was tracking toward the Shodoshima and Takamatsu area, and I risked being stranded on the island and missing Kurashiki, plus a Hokkaido trip planned with my best friend

Decision made: June 30th, while still in Nara

This is Part 1 of a series.

Note: Miyajima gets its own post soon, it deserves one all to itself.

The Warning

I was on the train when I saw it. A Japan news page I follow on Facebook, the kind of thing I usually scroll past, except this time it stopped me. Typhoon Bavi, heading toward Shodoshima, right where I was due to arrive on July 4th. Oh no, I remember thinking. Just that, sitting there with my phone, the train moving, everything else around me completely normal while my plans quietly started to fall apart.

"I won't pretend there wasn't panic. There was. But underneath it, something steadier too, a strange calm that said, okay, then. New plan."

The Decision

By June 30th, in Nara, it wasn't a maybe anymore. Takamatsu, where I was supposed to spend two nights starting July 2nd, and Shodoshima right after, both sat directly in Bavi's path. If I went ahead, I risked being stuck on an island with a storm bearing down, unable to get back in time for Kurashiki, let alone the Hokkaido trip I had planned with my best friend.

I won't pretend there wasn't panic. There was. But underneath it, something steadier too, a strange calm that said okay, then. New plan.

I asked Claude to help me think through where else I could go instead of trying to force the original plan to work. Hiroshima, Miyajima, and Onomichi came together as the new route, inland enough to be safer, and honestly, places I had never seriously considered before.

Cancelling on Booking.com was the moment it became real. Tapping cancel on Takamatsu, then Shodoshima, felt heavier than it should have for two hotel reservations. Thankfully I was still within the free cancellation window, small relief in the middle of everything else. I'd also booked a bus already, Nara back to Osaka, then Osaka to Takamatsu, because I love a good bus ride. Luckily that one let me cancel too, for a 100 yen fee. Phew. But then I started reading about where I was actually going instead, and somewhere in that reading I stopped grieving long enough to get excited. Miyajima has a floating torii gate, Itsukushima jinja, rising straight out of the sea at high tide. I hadn't even known that existed an hour earlier, and suddenly I couldn't wait to see it.

What I Was Actually Grieving

Here's the part that's harder to admit. This wasn't just a change of plans. It was grief, small but real.

Takamatsu and Shodoshima weren't a whim, I'd wanted them for almost a year. Angel Road, specifically: a sandbed that only appears at low tide, walkable for a few hours before the sea takes it back again. Yamahisa's soy sauce, the smell of it, the whole slow island rhythm I'd been picturing for months. That kind of anticipation builds a place in your mind long before you ever set foot in it. And then, in the space of one decision in Nara, I had to let it go.

Not forever. Just not now. There's a particular kind of ache in that, knowing a place will still be there, knowing you'll probably return, and still having to release your grip on the version of the trip you'd been carrying around for a year.

I tell my clients something like this often, actually. Imagine you've wanted something for so long, and then you finally go to the store, and it's sold out. That's the feeling. Not tragedy, just a quiet kind of letdown, disappointment sitting in your chest for a while before it eases. That's what this was. And it did ease, slowly, somewhere between Hiroshima, Miyajima, and Onomichi. It rained the entire time, Bavi made sure of that, but there was something so calm and peaceful about all three places anyway. Despite the rain, despite the plan I'd lost, it felt like home.

"There's a particular kind of ache in that, knowing a place will still be there, knowing you'll probably return, and still having to release your grip on the version of the trip you'd been carrying around for a year."

Why Japan, Again

This is my fourth trip to Japan. People around me ask sometimes, why Japan, you've been there so many times already, why not somewhere new? My answer is always the same. It holds an important space in my heart. There's a reason behind that, one I'll tell you properly another time.

For now, what I can say is this: my goal isn't just Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, the places everyone goes. It's every corner of it. The islands, the hillside towns, the places that don't make the highlight reels. Hiroshima wasn't supposed to be one of those corners yet. Bavi decided otherwise.

What Changed

Old plan: Kyoto, Nara, Takamatsu, Shodoshima, Kurashiki, Hokkaido New plan: Kyoto, Nara, Hiroshima, Miyajima, Onomichi, Kurashiki

The island hopping, olive grove version of the trip I'd pictured was gone. In its place: a city I'd been quietly avoiding, a shrine gate rising out of the sea, and a hillside town of temples and cats I knew almost nothing about.

The Unplanned Places Always Win

If there's one thing every Japan trip has taught me, it's this. It's never the places I plan down to the hour that leave the biggest mark. It's the yolo let's go here, let's explore here moments, the ones I stumble into sideways, that take my breath away and become the stories I actually tell my friends afterward.

Hiroshima almost didn't get the chance. I'd assumed I already knew its shape: visit the Peace Park, pay respects, and then what. I had no idea how wrong that assumption was.

If you're wondering how long to stay, for my pace, I wish I'd had at least three nights in Hiroshima, plus one night in Miyajima. Three nights sounds like a lot for a city I almost skipped entirely, and that's exactly the point. In the end I gave myself two days in Hiroshima and two in Onomichi, and even that felt like just enough to start, not nearly enough to finish. Onomichi especially, I'll tell you properly in its own post one day, all the getting lost, all the slopes I somehow ended up hiking without meaning to.

This is also where I think my travel style shows itself the most. I'm drawn to places with fewer people, more culture, more of the local everyday life, that's just more my tea. I don't like the go, check it off, move to the next spot kind of travel. I'd rather slow down and let a place unfold at its own pace. You'll probably notice this about me the more you read.

Getting to Miyajima meant a slow tram ride, then a short JR ferry crossing, and somewhere in that slowness, little Ad woke up. Not loud, not excited in a jumping around kind of way, more like a quiet, settled kind of happy, an inner chill I don't always get to feel. I realised I was about to have my sea. In Wuhan, where I live and work, there's no sea, only a lake. It sounds like a small difference until you're standing in front of it. The sea is never the same twice, the waves keep coming, keep hitting the shore, and something about that rhythm is deeply therapeutic to me. That ferry ride was the moment I properly understood why I always call myself an island girl.

"It woke up something in me, little Ad, the curious, adventurous kid who just wants to say yes and see what happens."

Why I Actually Loved This Part of Traveling

This is maybe the real point of the post. I didn't just tolerate the reroute, I loved it. The not knowing, the having to decide right now, the impromptu shape the rest of the trip took. It woke up something in me, little Ad, the curious, adventurous kid who just wants to say yes and see what happens. It's the version of travel I keep coming back for, not the plan holding perfectly, but what happens when it doesn't.

By the end of it, Hiroshima, Miyajima, and Onomichi felt like somewhere I could almost call home. I've already started dreaming up a trip that's just Hiroshima, nothing else, because I realised there is so much more for me to explore there.

That's why I call so many places home now, not just one. It's why I want to keep sharing these stories, journeying through them here as much as I journeyed through them in person. On the days I'm stressed from work, or missing travelling more than usual, this is what I get to come back to. And writing it now, I'm doing it with a smile.

Why I Travel Alone

Travelling alone this time around meant every decision, big or small, was mine to make. Cancelling the bookings, choosing the new route, figuring it all out on a train with a typhoon closing in, all of it was on me. And that's exactly why I love solo travel. Every big decision I get right makes me proud of myself in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

I won't pretend it's not scary sometimes, or lonely. It is. There have been moments of genuinely getting lost in a foreign country, realising there's no bus seat left, or worse, realising I've missed the very last bus of the day. Those moments are real, and I feel them every time, even after this many trips.

But the sense of fulfilment, the achievement, the contentment, the way I keep discovering more of myself with every solo trip, that only grows. It's something nobody can take away from me, not even when I'm in my sixties or seventies. I managed to overcome it. I managed to find a way. That, to me, is the beauty of travelling.

I want to travel as much as I possibly can now, while it's just me to answer to. One day, when I settle down and build a family of my own, I don't want to carry any resentment toward my husband or my children, thinking that because of them, I couldn't see the world. So I'm doing it now, with no regrets. The more uncomfortable something feels, the more I want to lean into it, challenge myself, and see what this world, and I, still have left to learn.

And one day, I want to tell all of these stories properly, not just write them here, but tell them out loud, to my husband, to my children, and maybe even to my grandchildren. This blog is where I'm keeping them safe until then.

Coming up

This is Part 1 of the Bavi reroute story. Miyajima deserves, and will get, a full story of its own soon. Onomichi too.

Have you ever had a trip completely rerouted by something out of your control? Tell me about it, I'd love to hear how you handled it.